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of course its cheating, the only question is, are YOU okay with it...
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That's actually not just regular cheating that to me is the worst deceitful thing you can do to a partner. Here I had this similar issue I was engaged to a woman lets just call her jojo. I'm poly which is a very hard thing to explain to someone that claims she didn't approve./ Well I cheated but I told her every time. She actually made me feel like shit after heaing how she felt. For the first time I was 100% with her. Come to find out my CRACKHEAD cousin feed her substances and convinced her his liFe WAS my life. Told her he was a CFO for a car dealership claimed he made a Mill a year LIE
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Sorry to vent felt great though. I'm digging your blog and that smile may have changed my life !
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If you voted It is not cheating, Let your partner find your escapades. How will your partner react to your online activities? Will she be OK with it? Richard Oz
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YEs... I think it comes down to honesty, cheating, seeming to me to be a form of dishonesty. *. *. *
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If the relationship is a committed one, meaning the two people involved agree to not have sex with anybody else, then this may not be "cheating", in the strictest sense, but it's still not good. If the intent is to eventually have sex with the correspondent, in-person, rumple-the-sheets sex, then yes, it's cheating.
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Yes, it's emotional cheating, which is just as bad.
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6/12/2021 11:53 am |
Yep it's cheating
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Relationships are complicated. Im thinking of a scenario where one or the other partner for psychological or physical reasons couldnt perform. Talking about this only served as a vehicle for making said partner feel worse and unworthy. Is the other partner to go without, even after medical intervention has not helped. Are they to divorce their sick /needy partner. Children and other family members are all entwined in this. I cant generalize. The ins and outs need to be navigated for each relationship....
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It is cheating, albeit on the lower end of the cheaing continuum, if the significant other is unaware of things. 
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1 post 6/12/2021 1:58 pm |
Less fun doing it same result if you get caught. Cheating either way.
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.....and i would look favorably on it, if i was the ill one. I just feel its unfair that he should be made to turn off just because I can no longer perform. Rather selfish of me. I ve separated the physical act from the emotional connection of the marriage vow. I too was raised in the ' sickness /health' era......as many females were. All of that required dedication and sacrifice. Patriarchal society , patriarchal rules...as the females werent really benefiting and were lead to believe thats just how it was suppose to be. Yeah.....its all gotta be negotiated by the individuals as to what the goals /expectations are in this world where people are living longer n longer.~~ Good Post...good discussion/s
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You outlined two completely different scenario's. Just being on this site (or others like it), even engaging in conversation and flirtation with members is nothing more than entertainment. Once special parts are shared on live video, the secrecy (or exclusivity) one might expect has been breached. However, if the individual is a known exhibitionist, there's no conveyance of exclusivity and no promises broken.
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Just being on this site (or others like it), even engaging in conversation and flirtation with members is nothing more than entertainment. That's drawing a fine line, but how many people explain that they ONLY want conversation/flirting? I haven't seen too many profiles that are that specific.
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