Been in a sexless marriage for the last 7 year and after numerous talks to no avail, I decided it is time to look outside the marriage for some romance and intimacy. I am looking for a man nearby me who is between the ages or 40 and 59, married or single, who can be discreet and is looking for some romance and intimacy as well. My dream lover would be tall, with long hair and pagan, pagan friendly or at least spiritually open-minded. But as the Rolling Stones sang, you can't always get what you want. So tall with any length of hair will be good too....however the spiritually open-minded part is non-negotiable. I like to get to know someone first before talk of sex and the like begins, so if you approach me with a "lets hook up" you will be ignored. If all you have on your profile is a dick pic, you will be ignored.