Here is my dilemma....I've tried the dating sites and wasted so much time and effort and energy on women who just don't have "it"...so, I thought I would try this site to find someone who can really experience all that Life has to offer. My philosophy is simple and led me to this simple process of finding someone who I want to be with: Step 1: Meet and stay close to interesting and fun people who love Life; Step 2: Laugh and cry and enjoy and appreciate the people you meet in Step 1 and keep the quality ones for steps 3-5; Step 3: Ski when there is snow in the mountains; Step 4: Bike and hike when the snow is gone; Step 5: Be mindful and thankful for being able to do Steps 3 and 4; Step 6: Enjoy sex in all its forms and playfulness and closeness and meaning; Step 7: Repeat Steps 1-6 until dead; Step 8 (optional): Add wine. It's simple really...I am an educated, professional, driven, fun, laid back, sexually enlightened, good guy who is basically seeking the same in a woman. If you like that type of man, let me know....and then let the fun and laughter and exploration and learning and closeness begin....

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Spanking, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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