I’m a clean white collar worker who travels for work around Charleston. Yes, I used to be a pool boy. I place great emphasis on my physical and spiritual health because that is the key to youth and a strong mindset. I don’t smoke but don’t if you do. Poor communication and boundary setting are the root of most relationship problems, so I ask you to please reciprocate those. I value honesty and respect. I want to have fun in my life, responsibly. After messaging and talking on the phone enough for us both to feel comfortable, lets go out for dinner and find out if our energies match. I will send a face picture and expect you to do the same. I’m definitely an old soul, so don’t automatically dismiss me because of my age. I love to suck pussy and you don’t need to have a perfect body to be beautiful! I usually message first, but send me a flirt because I may have overlooked your profile. My greatest turn on is a confident mature (older than me) woman who is motivated to become the best version of herself. I think my attraction stems from the confidence a woman has in herself to know exactly what she wants and be comfortable in her own body. Emphasis on slow passionate pleasure and foreplay. I’m interested in learning how a woman thinks and what pleasures her. Hence the phrase - she comes first.

My Ideal Person A woman with standards. I won’t be interested if I look at your profile and get the impression you have sex with anybody who has a cock swinging between his legs.