Confident, mature man who lost a good wife to cancer almost 3 years ago, having been married more than 20 years. Finances, job and home very stable. I work at a private golf club, play (golf) on the weekends and want to enjoy an interesting lady's company in the evenings. I've got a management background in pro sports, but current job is more fulfilling. Got a great little that rounds out my household so I'm not totally alone. Adjusting to being single again took awhile, but having fun now and always looking for more! I'm open-minded about who that may be with.

My Ideal Person Totally or mostly independent. Opinionated or strong-willed is fine. Looks and personality tend to go hand-in-hand, but I like women with good common sense and no major problems! Kids okay if we don't have to center relationship around them, especially at first. Don't want a woman who's uneasy about her sexuality or wants to wait a long time, that's for teens and early 20's, in my view. Just as she's affectionate and caring, that's sexy in itself to me. Don't mind helping her through some problems, but not to the extent a husband would. Marriage is way, way down the road at best. Doesn't have to happen at all.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Threesomes

Have you ever had cybersex?:
No way. I only want skin on skin.

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